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The Old Wolf's avatar

I, for one, applied to five Ivy-league colleges during my last year at a prestigious, venerable Connecticut preparatory school for rich men's goof-offs (as my father used to say.) I graduated with what they call Honors of the Second Rank. I was rejected by all five, most probably because of the abysmal quality of those never-to-be-sufficiently-damned essays. I may have been hella smart in an ADHD sort of way, but I was just turning 17 and several years more mature than an eight-year-old.

Our dean of faculty took pity on me and got me admitted to a school in Pennsylvania where, it would be assumed, he had a friend who needed help hiding a body. It was a wonderful year. I played, and procrastinated, and futzed around, and probably broke 50 rules (and a few laws), and was cordially invited not to return. But I did have one seminal experience there which changed the direction of my life for good, and so it was not a total loss.

I transferred to a not-so-prestigious but stolid state university in Utah, got my act together, decided that math and chemistry and business sucked worse than a Dyson, changed my major to French and Italian and English, and graduated Magna Cum Laude. Which just goes to show that ADHD can still pull the wool over the eyes of tenured professors if judiciously applied. But in the course of the four years there (with a year off to study at the Istituto Orientale dell'università di Napoli (when they weren't on strike, which was every other week), I did get the higher education that led to an M.A. in computational linguistics and ESL and a fulfilling career in the translation field.

All of which goes to show that the essays didn't really count for much at all in the end.

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Merewyn Lyons's avatar

Last weekend while grocery shopping with my husband, I saw a display of Rice-a-Roni and started laughing. My husband wondered what was so funny. It would have been difficult to explain quickly in the middle of a grocery store isle, so kept it to myself. But you have for ever changed my perspective on this mundane little side dish.

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